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This was supposed to be 7 Quick Takes, but since we put off (re-)announcing the move, I had to wait. But now we can finally talk about it! And believe you me, I'm shouting it from the mountaintops! We're moving to Missouri! Our own promised land!2
I am a woman obsessed. I don't read blogs. I don't read books. I don't return phone calls or emails. I barely play with the baby. I spend all my time scouring the houses for sale!Seriously, I have devoted hours and hours to searching out our dream home. Just when I think I've exhausted the area we're looking in, I decide to tweak some of the search parameters and start looking all over again!
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Unfortunately I've realized that our dream home doesn't exist... at least not in our price range and more importantly not in our commute range. It's been surprisingly difficult for me to accept the fact that we won't be able to have a nice home in the country. It's taken a lot of praying and a few tears to accept it! How pathetic is that, huh? I have everything I could ask for - we're moving close to my family and we're going to be able to buy a nice home - and I'm pitching a fit because we won't have a couple of acres to go along with it. Ridiculous.4
Let's talk about some much-acclaimed home features. First of all, am I alone in not thinking hardwood floors are the end-all be-all? I mean, I like them, but not in every room of the house. I want carpet under my feet when I get out of bed and I'm lounging around the family room. But maybe that's just me. In all honesty, one of the reasons I like carpet is because I feel like you can get away with cleaning it less often. It seems like I sweep all the time, but I rarely vacuum!Next, what is the deal with hot tubs? Several of the houses we've seen have them and we can't figure it out. To the best of our knowledge, they only get used when teenage kids want to have a scandalous co-ed party. Do you know anyone who has a hot tub and actually uses it?
There are a few other things I'm not too impressed by (plant ledges, pools, granite, stainless steel), but I'm starting to realize it all boils down to me not wanting to put forth any extra effort in cleaning. This is true laziness shining through I suppose!
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I think being able to map a location online is the coolest thing ever. I love being able to look up the houses that I see listed and get a peek at the backyard and the neighborhood. Sometimes you can even get the street view and see how good of shape the road is in! We've actually been able to really narrow down our list of homes just by checking Google maps (lots of street views) and Bing maps (aerial views from different angles and seasons). Awesome. I can't imagine house-hunting before the internet, especially from 1000 miles away!6
If we don't find a house we'd like to buy, I think we're going to try to rent in a pocket neighborhood! H/T to Molly for introducing me to the concept. I love the sense of community that it's supposed to foster. I don't know that I could live in one long-term (that's the hankering in me for land and lots of it) but I think it would be a really neat thing to experience for a year or two.7
So not only are we looking to buy a house... but we're hoping to find and buy a house in less than a week. Why yes, we might be crazy. It will be a whirlwind several days! Do you have any advice for us? On anything from house buying to mortgages to keeping a 6 month old happy as you drag her to a dozen or more houses within a 36 hour window? We'll take all the help we can get!

Now, Miss Elizabeth, you are seriously undervaluing a jetted two-person tub. Ours does lovely duty as a drying rack for swimsuits.
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Oh, and the kids like taking baths in it sometimes.
Okay, I'll be serious now. The only thing I would say is check storage. Outside storage, I mean. We bought a gorgeous new house with no storage space. We have to put hte bikes, the lawn mower, all gardening tools & equipment, and all the outside toys in the garage, which means we can't put both cars in. I shake my head all the time, wondering whose brilliant idea it was to skip the storage space that almost every other house around us has.
ReplyDeleteHow exciting for you! Good luck with the searching!
ReplyDeleteglad I could turn you on to the pocket neighborhoods, you're lucky you live in an area that has it! Good luck with the house hunting, we'll be living vicariously thru your good fortune! =D
ReplyDeleteElizabeth, I totally understand and sympathize with your obsession. I would be the same way. How exciting!
ReplyDeleteI know hot tubs have a bit of a seedy rep, but they are actually quite pleasant. The place we are renting has one, and I have to say that we have become hot tub people :) The heat and the jets are very relaxing. I used to love baths, but didn't like wasting all the water, especially when I would only be in it for about 10 minutes. But with hut tubs, no biggie- get in, get out, whatever. Plus its more social. It's the best when it is slightly cool outside. I'm pregnant now, so I don't get in, just my feet if I do, but my husband loves it, just to take a few minutes to relax after dinner.
Not sure if you have a baby carrier, but that would be a must in your situation. Ergo carriers are great for 15lb and up babies.
How exciting for you! My number one piece of advice on house-shopping is something you've probably heard before. Keep the monthly expense for the house down to 1/3 of your monthly income. We bought a house zero down (big mistake!) and got a 5 year ARM (another big mistake!)and our monthly mortgage payment was slightly over a third of our monthly income, once we added the heating and cooling and water and electricity payments, we were almost up to half of our monthly income, and that wasn't even including maintaintance and repairs. It was to much, and when my husband lost his job, we were in so far over our heads that we couldn't find a replacement job that came even close to meeting our monthly bills. We ended up selling the house (in the crashing housing market) for 35K less than we owed, and 3 years later we are about to pay off the last of it this summer. So, long story short? Don't do zero down, don't get an Adjustable Rate Mortgage, and don't have your total housing expenses add up to more than a third of your monthly income. Have fun shopping! :)
ReplyDeleteJust one bit of advice: once you find a house you like check the National or Missouri Sex Offender registry to see if there are any sex offenders around where you live. My brother learned this the hard way after they bought a house and discovered there was a registered sex offender that lives right behind them.
ReplyDeleteSo exciting! Good luck with house hunting... it will be a whirlwind of visiting houses it sounds like! My advice: take notes as you go (likes, dislikes)... don't wait until even two houses afterwards because the houses start to run together!
ReplyDeleteI love all hardwood, mainly because of my allergies. There are always those LARGE area rugs, which can be more decorative than wall-to-wall (tends to be more neutral)... I say all of this and the only place in our house w/o carpet is our bathroom & kitchen, haha! I'm dreaming of all-hardwood!
This was the start of your house-hunting, right? The rush and hardships were worth it! I see that you managed to buy a new house. Congratulations to your family! May you have fun with that house. :D
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